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TRAVELLING
MAGICALLY:
How
to turn your journey into a life-changing experience
By
Dr. Rima A Morrell
First
published in Great Britain in 2008 by Piatkus Books
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Dr Rima Morrell
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ISBN 978-0-7499-2818-6
Introduction: Why travel this way?
Man was born free, but everywhere he is in chains
Jean-Jacques Rousseau
We all desire
to leave our chains behind, but we don’t know how. We all
long for freedom but we don’t know where it lies. Some of
us seek religion or aspects of the spirit, others go out and explore
new lands. The lure of travel is well known. It has been documented
in poetry, books and films and is the subject of many individual
and collective desires. This book focuses on how to travel, particularly
through using your intuition – the best travel guide of all.
There are many tremendous travel books in the world. But this is
the only one to help you find your true home. I wish I’d known
the things I am now sharing when I started travelling. I wrestled
with so many questions and situations, from ‘who can I trust?’
and ‘when do I travel with other people?’ to ‘where
do I go and when?’ and even ‘when do I have sex?’
Most importantly, ‘what did it all mean?’ For your true
home ultimately is in what you know, not where you have been. As
far as I know, this is the only ‘how-to travel’ guide
– much needed considering travel is the world’s biggest
industry.
Magical travel:
the five principles
Let’s look at the five principles of magical travel, and at
how they differ from more ordinary travel:
First principle:
Only follow your intuition
Be prepared to travel solo – with your intuition as your travel
guide.
Second principle:
Travel spontaneously
Go from place to place according to what feels right.
Third principle:
Go local
Leave the beaten track. Go local, travelling cheaply and ethically.
Fourth principle:
Allow the sacred
Prepare for mystical experiences, in sacred places and elsewhere.
Fifth principle:
Integrate your journey into your life
Make your magical experiences part of your everyday life.
There are five
main distinctions between magical travel and ordinary travel.
The first is
that you choose the silver road of your intuition to travel, out
of the many possible roads, all of which lead to different destinations.
We shall talk more about what your intuition is and how to follow
it. For now, let’s leave it as the road to your magic is an
inner journey, which will always lead you to the best possible place
in the outer world. You are prepared to travel alone. Even if it
seems scary at the moment, there are plenty of tips to help you.
The second is
to travel in an unstructured way, according to where feels right
at the time. You won’t go to places because they are famous
or other people say you should go there, but because it feels right
for you.
The third is
to often leave the beaten track and explore the local culture, travel
by local transport, and so on. You will not go on organised tours
and you will need relatively little money.
The fourth is
that you are encouraged to prepare for your own mystical experiences,
for instance in sacred places, which can lead you into states of
bliss.
The fifth difference
is that you are given tips on integrating your experiences into
your life. For your trip, unlike other trips, isn’t disassociated
from the rest of your life. Magical travel is your silvery portal
into a new world.
By teaching you how to follow your intuition, not only your journey
but your life, will be transformed. Your intuition will lead you
to a high world of freedom that lasts for far longer than your trip.
In reviewing it, you may discover that some of your experiences
actually provided ‘tests’ for you – lessons you
needed to learn to make your life better. They may be simple, like
‘you don’t need money to be happy’, or more profound,
such as on the nature of reality. Through learning these lessons,
you will be catapulted away from your familiar, plain grey life
towards a life of light and excitement. Your experiences will crack
you open and change you forever, even if you don’t believe
it’s possible – that’s what happened to me.
My story
Much have I travel’d in the realms of gold …
John Keats
I was miserable
when I set off alone to India, Nepal, Pakistan and Australia when
I was 18. I had the next few years mapped out and was on my way
to Cambridge University to study anthropology after my gap year
finished. I was an atheist who didn’t believe in God, because
it simply wasn’t rational and there were so many bad things
happening in the world. I certainly wasn’t expecting my life
to transform.
When I arrived in India I had an odd feeling of coming home. I suddenly
knew I could go anywhere, do anything. My Lonely Planet guidebook
was very useful, but the best guide proved to be my intuition. I
was led to amazing places. A turret over the most sacred village
in India, when elephants were being bathed at sunset in the lake
below. Desert rides on camels and the most perfect powder snow in
Kashmir. In Kathmandu, the capital of Nepal, my blood started to
sing and zing, a feeling better than falling in love. What I felt
was magic. It was the magic of truly being at home for the first
time. At home with myself.
What was going on? I had lost my belief in magic when I was a little
girl and stopped writing about fairyland. But unknowingly I had
followed four out of the five principles of travelling magically.
I started alone, and while I met some great people along the way,
I retained my freedom to make decisions, which I did following my
intuition. So I covered the first principle. I travelled in an unstructured
way, going from mountain to city to desert according to what felt
right, so fulfilling the second. I had left the beaten track and
became fascinated by the local cultures; that was the third. To
my surprise, I encountered some incredible ’mystical’
experiences, even though I didn’t believe they were possible,
that was the fourth. But I didn’t know how to integrate them
with my previous life experiences or philosophy. Thus I failed the
final test, the fifth principle, integrating my journey into my
life. I had to give up university and got very sick with a tropical
disease. Yet somehow an inner voice made me carry on. Even though
I had no idea where it came from, and it made no ‘sense’
to me, I knew it was important.
Following intuition
Straight path escapes the winding roads
I leave home for the truth
Akiane
It wasn’t
surprising that I had no idea where my intuition came from. For
lessons in mainstream schooling did not teach you me to access it,
nor did they acknowledge it existed. The downplaying and ignoring
of our intuition may be the hardest thing about growing up in the
West. Sociologist Emile Durkheim (1858–1917) said that we
have lost meaning, a state of disconnection that he termed anomie.
Unlike smaller-scale societies, we work hard, play hard, travel
a lot, often don’t know the people around us and feel empty
inside. We don’t know what it’s all for. Do you recognise
this state?
If you are like most people, other people will have decided what
you will do with your life. You are born into a family, a society,
and your role is merely to live the life you were born for, whether
you are a check-out person in a supermarket or a barrister. You
have been formed to fit a shape that is probably not appropriate
for the essential you; you have been told that your hopes and your
dreams are not significant. Most people are simply going through
the motions and escaping from the humdrum reality of their lives
through drink, drugs, the Internet and other media. Yet in truth
there is a reason and a purpose to everything that happens to us.
We do need to be free to find it, and travelling magically provides
the opportunity. For your free time, even if it is only an afternoon
of a weekend trip, will help you realise who you are, the essential
you. Your best guide is always – you.
Luckily one mistake I didn’t usually make in the hard years
that followed my magical trip was to deny my intuition. As I was
on the right path to begin with, I didn’t need to change it
and eventually got back to Cambridge to finish my degree in anthropology.
I learned about other cultures and belief systems, and focused on
local and tribal ones. I studied alternative economic systems, shamanism,
art around the world and topics such as development, the East–West
divide and medical anthropology. Then I travelled around the islands
of the Pacific and finally completed a Ph.D. on Hawaiian language
and culture and a few books, for which my first degree was perfect
preparation. My intuition led me better than ‘I’ ever
could have. And most importantly I realised that everything –
even my years of illness – has a purpose. I believe in God,
although not a fatherly God – God to me is more of a sense
of connection. And I got over many fears, including death. I don’t
believe in miracles, I know miracles because I regularly experience
them.
I still travel magically. In the USA, I have been led, quite unknowingly,
from pow-wow to pow-wow, in a way I could never have planned. Each
was in full swing, the cloaked dancers treading, their feather headdresses
shining in the sunlight. I have bent and picked up a lump of jade,
seals barking nearby, in front of a glittering sea on the only beach
in the world where the rainforest and glaciers fringe the coral
reef. I have hung-out in faraway bars and danced at Polynesian festivals
where I was the only Westerner. I love my work, which has developed
as a direct result of my finding my truth. So my seemingly going
off-track actually led to me being on track. For my intuition always
knew, even when I didn’t. My life is now rich and full and
I reached this ledge of light by following the five silvery principles
of magical travel.
Who is this
book for – and not for?
We shall not travel, but we make the road
Helen Friedlander
We are all special.
And all it takes to use this book is the ability to dream and the
courage to let go and take the first step. You don’t even
need money, but you do need a bit of time – even if only a
weekend. This book is for gap-year students, for career-breakers,
it’s for OAPs. It’s for those off on their big OE (overseas
experience), it’s for empty nesters. It’s for weekenders
and it’s for flashpackers – those used to going to destinations
fast. This book is for ‘backpackers’ (people who travel
cheaply, often with backpacks) as well as those used to travelling
more expensively and less expansively. It’s for a fortnight,
a year or a lifetime. It’s for all those who want more in
their life – more love, more meaning, more people you ‘click’
with, more memories, more fizz. For ultimately we can make our dreams
reality. All of us. No one is ever in our way but ourselves.
But not everyone will choose this book, and that’s fine too.
It’s not a post-colonial diatribe, of the kind beloved by
so many academics. There are indeed numerous problems in the world,
but the way to change them is by changing yourself. Then you will
instinctively make the right decisions. But if you would rather
focus on the problems – and analyze them on a mental level
– then this book is not for you. Nor is it for you if you
have an addiction such as drugs or alcohol, in which case do get
some help. Otherwise your addiction will block your magical experiences.
If you are on anti-depressants, try and get off them, and allow
your true feelings coming through. Nor is this book for those running
away from situations such as debts or custody cases – deal
with them first. And you don’t need it if your life is already
full of myth, meaning and magic, which is probably only likely if
you’re a native of a traditional society. This book is also
not for those who don’t want it, like Will and Lisa.
Will and Lisa
A journey is like marriage
The way to be wrong is think you control it
John Steinbeck
Married for
a few years, Will and Lisa look forward to their annual holiday
abroad. They have decided where they are going before they leave
the country, booked the accommodation and car hire in advance and
agreed on their excursions. They stick to the same old circuits
and meet the same people. The biggest surprise might be the hotel
plumbing not working as well as it should. When they return they
show off their memorabilia and slot back into their familiar life
as if they’d never left. When their suntans fade, they have
their photos and dinner-party conversations to sustain them.
There is so much more they could be experiencing, but like the tourists
who look at an iceberg, nine-tenths of which is under the surface,
they will never see the rest. When they have a sense of something
(and they do), they don’t talk about it, even to each other;
they ‘act like they’re happy’ as Lisa calls it,
and carry on with their trip. They do exactly the same at home,
so the trip is an extension of their life. By working so hard to
stay in control they have not exposed themselves to other ways of
doing things. Their travel could change their job, their character
and bring out their hidden potential. It could expose them to experiences
that they would never have at home. It could transform them into
people they have never known. But Will and Lisa would rather stay
the same and stay safe, and not open the door. That’s okay.
But how about if you do choose to open the door and allow some change
into your life?
Opening the
door
There upon the beach the ugly houses stand: Come and see my shining
palace built upon the sand! Edna St. Vincent Millay
That beautiful
quote was on the dorm room of anthropologist Margaret Mead, when
she was in college. In later
years she went on to help us redefine many of our familiar notions.
By leaving your familiar land and drawing in new experiences like
iron filings to a magnet, you are ready to find a new world. By
the end of the book you will know what to do – cheaply, easily
and spontaneously – to restore meaning to your life. For in
the end, what is there to lose but your chains? And you will certainly
have a very memorable trip that is far more than a holiday –
whether it takes a weekend or a lifetime.
Magical travel opens new doors, not only to other countries and
other cultures, but to the most important journey of all, the journey
inside yourself. Within you lie the realms of silver and gold. They
are the home of your deep knowing and your sense of peace and rightness.
They are your core, the true home of your soul. Your journey will
become an alchemical journey, as you are guided on the most important
one of all – your life path.
How this book
works
Teach us the road to travel and we will not depart from it forever
Satank, Kiowa
The book is
divided into three sections, ‘Before you go’, ‘When
you’re there’ and ‘Coming home again’. Even
though some of the advice, such as ‘when do you come home?’
is only relevant for those on a longer journey, the inner wisdom
applies whatever the length of your trip. The book consists of stories,
some from my early magical travel experiences, some belong to others.
Where people are published or otherwise well-known, so they are
already in the public domain I use their full name, otherwise I
use first names, which have sometimes been changed. Yet the point
of the book isn’t in the stories, it is in what lies below
the stories. For the book works on an intuitive, as well as a mental
level.
For instance, every chapter is discrete, and the book can be read
straight through or by going to the relevant parts concerning where
you are on your journey. As you open the book you may find you are
drawn to one section rather than another. Follow your intuition
– this book does not have to be read in chronological order.
It can be used as and when you need it. The references, including
websites, and suggestions for further reading, can be found in the
Resources section at the back of the book. I would recommend dipping
into it as you please. Over 80% of travel resources now are web-based,
so for those of you so far unfamiliar with it, why not try a course?
Your local library or college often offers inexpensive ones, even
free for the ‘silver surfers’ amongst you. Remember
that not all websites are independent, indeed most travel websites
are sponsored. Be aware of their limitations and always trust your
own intuition above all else.
Unusually for a travel book today, I include references to books.
The range is wide from travel and guidebooks, to the odd academic
text to personal stories of awakening. If you wish, you can bring
them on your trip according to the particular qualities you would
like to gain – such as the ability to relax or to be open
to mystical experiences. That is why I have arranged them according
to chapter. I don’t for a moment expect you to agree with
every part of every book, they are selected to stimulate and illuminate.
For reasons of variety, I tend to mention only one book by a particular
writer.
The astute reader will notice many references to India. Partly the
reason is simple – because there are. Perhaps that’s
because of the power of place – if every place has its own
vibration, then India’s is particularly intense, and it magnetizes
people. If you would rather go to Uganda then great. Take the Indian
examples and apply them to your experience in Africa. The principles
are universal, India is merely the crucible boiling them into worldly
form for so many.
This book is an interactive tool and I would love to hear about
your travel experiences, and some of them will be put up on the
website accompanying the book (www.rimamorrell.com from summer 2008).
You can find some photographs of my early travel experiences there
as well as some more stories. I have not been paid for any recommendations
in this book. But one thing’s for sure, things change, so
please look at the website for any additional recommendations in
the resource section.
Thank you for choosing to travel magically, it’s time to start
moving.
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